What Women Want from a Man

The best way to gain the attraction of seduction from a woman is to understand first what women most look for in a man and what turns them on. Over a thousand women were surveyed to find this out, and below I have listed the main traits women want from a man:

1. Women want you to be confident. It's one of the number one qualities women look for in a man. Be sure of yourself. Don't apologize for everything. Don't be overly sensitive or wimpy. Mostly, be yourself.

2. Women really love a man with a good sense of humor. Using humor intelligently and at the right moments is super effective in making you attractive to them. Now I said intelligently, not stupidly. If your humor gets too "weird" it can be a turn off, especially if it is coming from insecurity. Using rule #1, confidence, and rule #2, humor, together is a winning combination. Making her laugh lets her know that you are fun to be with and don't take life too seriously.

3. Make her feel special and wanted. Do gentlemanly things for her like open the car door, carry her bag, buy her flowers. If it's cold out, offer her your coat, if she needs protection, put your arm around her. Women really like to know that a man will take care of her and these things show her that. But don't overdo it.

4. Be fun, adventurous and romantic. Show her a great time by coming up with playful ideas. Take her on an adventure, give her a sensual massage, treat her to a candelit bath complete with wine and chocolate, go for a balloon ride (make sure she's not scared of heights!) or anything that is new and exciting. This will show that you like a good time, and she will wonder how adventurous you will be in the sack!

5. Women want a man who can be present and listen to them. They need to be heard. This I find is one of the biggest keys to opening a women's heart and trust. It can also lead to great passion. Remember earlier I mentioned women being highly emotional creatures? Well, as a man, if you can learn how to really be available to her when she needs to vent or sound off about something (even if it's about you), she will open up to you more and more.

The trick is to not take any of it personally. Real listening requires that you suspend your thinking about what you are going to say and become deeply in tune and engaged with what she is talking about. Focus on her and her needs. Put away your own fears and worries and give her the support she needs in the moment. Shut off your busy mind just for a few moments and just listen. Don't Judge, don't try to fix her, just be available and allow. Do it because you really care.

To be able to do this really shows your strength as a man, and this is a HUGE turn on for her. Real listening with real intimacy is rare and what women crave. It will build trust and safety in her world, and allow her to open up to you in the most desirable ways.

Above all, be real, honest and authentic. Don't try to much to please her but just enjoy her as an addition to your life. Enjoy your life first, include her in on it. Live life to the fullest and you will have no shortage of women and passionate times together.

Women like an attentive man and as she feels more and more safe with you, she will allow you to explore much more in physical and sexual ways.

So, this is a short list of some of the things that can really make a difference in your attractiveness to women. Learning to develop each and every one of these skills will not only lead to you becoming more attractive, but will also lead to a more personally satisfying life.