Sensual Tantric Prostate Massage Techniques

Author: Maya Silverman

Tantric philosophy is an ancient science that originated in India. Intimately related to Yoga, Tantric techniques are used to expand consciousness and liberate energy. Tantra has been referred to as the "science of ecstasy" for its ability to draw couples together when used before or during lovemaking. The G-Spot, or prostate is thought to be the male center of emotion and sexuality. Therefore it is the perfect focus of Tantric massage for the release of tension and relaxation. Combined with a massage of the Lingham it is not only intensely pleasurable for the receiver but also has healing properties.

The prostate is a walnut size gland located quite close to the rectal wall at the inside base of the penis. You cannot touch the prostate directly but you can initiate massage techniques that will reach its pleasure sensors. This male gland is highly sensitive to pressure and can be accessed through the anal cavity. By applying pressure to the prostate in this way and through rubbing and stroking, prostate massage creates feelings akin to those felt during ejaculation.

Prior to beginning a sensual Tantric massage, make sure the body is clean. You may enjoy a hot shower or bath together or alone. The receiver should carefully clean the anal area during the preparation period. As with all Tantric massages, prepare the room before hand with soft lighting and a comfortable location for the receiver to lie. In performing a prostate massage, the giver should use a very thin latex glove. This is useful to protect the delicate anal tissue from tears and scratches from rough fingers and nails and a lubricated gloved finger creates a far superior sensation. To begin the prostate massage, have the unclothed receiver sit in a slightly reclined position. Use pillows to support his back and instruct him to draw his knees up toward his chest and allow them to fall slightly and comfortably apart. Remember the act of submission for a male is in and of itself therapeutic.

The male does not often allow himself to be the receiver and may take some time to become comfortable doing so. This is an important step in sensual Tantric prostate massage technique. Begin by massaging the lower part of the receivers body to prepare and relax him. Using lotion or oil to soften the skin of your hands and allow a smooth glide over his body, massage his abdomen, hips and thighs. Encourage him to relax as you slowly and gently work your hands over his muscles and skin. While he's relaxing let him close his eyes but when the time nears to begin the prostate massage ask him to open them and maintain eye contact with him for the greatest intimacy.

When you feel he is sufficiently relaxed, slip the glove on your hand and pour lubricant on the anal opening. Gently and slowly begin to massage the anus. Do not immediately attempt to enter but wait until your finger is drawn in. Using circular motions massage and relax the area adding plenty of lubricant. When the receiver is relaxed your finger will go in easily. Gradually move your finger in and out of the opening but keep it in contact with it at all times. The goal is for the receiver to become accustomed to the presence of your finger and accept the penetration comfortably. Once the receiver is relaxed and you are able to penetrate freely bend your finger toward the front of the receiver's body in a "come hither" motion and you will touch the prostate. Very gently press and massage watching the receiver face to make sure what you are doing is pleasurable for him. If desired you or he can massage his penis as well. He may prefer to simply enjoy the prostate massage alone.