It’s finally the summer time in case you haven’t noticed by the rising temperatures outside. The summer is the season of vacations, graduation parties, lounging at the pool and dance recitals. You never thought of that but I’m sure that little dancer in training you are raising didn’t. She has her ballet shoes and tutu all set and ready for business.

All of the children at the recital, including yours, have worked really hard all year for this time of year. This is their chance to be in the spotlight and make you proud. You’ll want to make their night extra special with some preparation on the proper etiquette for one of these recitals. Here are a few on the things that you should and should not do during your child’s big opportunity to impress you.

• As soon you find out the date of the recital, mark it on your calendar at home. Be sure to also note the days of any rehearsals, as well. You will find that there are times when these rehearsals will conflict with other already planned events such as a birthday party or little league game. Planning out ahead of time will make the necessary arrangements easier for you.

• Your child should be already fully dressed in their costume for the rehearsal. This also includes full makeup and hair. They should wear their street shoes into the auditorium and change into their ballet shoes once in the building.

• All pictures should be taken during the rehearsal instead of the recital. It is much easier to do and there is a better chance of getting some great shots since at the rehearsal you can walk right up to the stage. You won’t be allowed to at the recital.

• Leave the house early on the night of the recital and get to your seats early. Your child should also be dressed in full attire or costume upon arrival. Pick the seats you’re going to be sitting in and point out where they will be to your child so they can find where you are on stage. It will give them an extra boost in confidence knowing you are watching them.

• Please applaud and clap loudly. Acknowledge your child's hard work and let them know how proud of them you are. Try not to yell out student’s name or encourage your children to wave. Anything other than clapping in considered rude.

• You know you’re going to want to watch your child perform the dance numbers many times after the show has ended. Record the performance or check to see if there will be DVDs of the performance sold after the performance.

• A nice thing and added touch for your child, is to bring them flowers. It will make them feel better about how well they did as you continue to rave about the performance and shower them with praise.

• As a token of thanks, many parents buy the teacher a small thank you gift. Give it to the teacher after the last dance class or rehearsal instead of at the recital. It will be less hectic and you can thank them in person much easier.