Female Libido – A Guide For Partners Wanting To Help

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  • Author Kelly Price
  • Published September 13, 2007
  • Word count 538

A great many studies have been conducted for the last 75 years now, regarding women’s sexual health, and especially concerned with women’s overall opinion of their sexual life.

It may come as no surprise that about one in every two women find their sex life unacceptable. If this article concerns you as a partner of such a woman, read on, as there is more than hope, there is a proven method to boost her sex drive naturally.

What is Sex Drive

Basically, female sex drive is the urge and willingness to copulate (and more). However, a woman’s sex

drive is influenced by many factors, such as her general state of health, her psychological state of mind, environmental factors, and even the phases of the moon!

Negative Influences

without a doubt, one of the greatest negative influences to a woman’s sexual health is STRESS. Whatever the stressor is, be it chronic or acute, it will negatively affect a woman’s sex drive. Worries, depression, confusion, doubts, and fear all contribute to reducing a woman’ sex drive and general appetite for the sexual experience.

Other negative influences that are habitual stressors are low-self esteem, being overweight, an insensitive partner, or any other reason that makes the woman feel inadequate, affects her sex drive, and thus her sex life

Positive Influences – Solutions

First of all, her stress must be relieved. There is nothing better than a relaxing massage to do that. The lighting should be subdued, soft and soothing music playing, and a massage that generally rids the body of stress-related nervous reactions.

This can be proceeded by some great conversation, candle lights (may sound passé, but in reality, soft candle light send very special signals to the brain), burning some fragrant incense or having presented her flowers.

If she likes wine, some very good Bordeaux or equivalent sets the mind at ease, and for a while, those stressors that are turning down (or off) her sex drive and themselves turned off. As the stressors disappear, the lady’s brain will start sending the proper signals.

And what do these signals do? For a start, vaginal secretions make the vagina ready to receive the penis, and the even the depth of the vagina itself will change for this accommodation.

The clitoris will start to engorge, and become extra-sensitive (awaiting stimulation). This is pre-orgasmic preparation, and in itself, increases the sex drive at the same time.

Additional Assistance

Recent scientific studies have shown that creams containing the protein L-Arginine, when applied to a clitoris just before sexual activity, can increase the blood flow and engorgement to the clitoris.

This only amplifies the natural sexual arousal response, and can assist a woman in achieving a clitoral orgasm (or several) with a great deal less effort that she may have previously experienced. There are several commercial formulations of such creams, and they do work.

The Best of All – A Sympathetic Partner

Just be being a sympathetic partner, and knowing the simple advice above can turn a woman’s boring and unsatisfactory sexual life into an exciting and satisfying regular event. In turn, a happier and satisfied woman often rewards her partner in kind and with added benefits he did not expect.

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Belich
Belich · 17 years ago
I order Sentia pills to my wife sometimes. This drug helps her to have rather high sex drive. She wants to be sexier but I think she is OK after taking the course of it.

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