Happy as you want to be

Self-ImprovementHappiness

  • Author David Lee
  • Published October 13, 2007
  • Word count 917

"Most people ask for happiness on condition. Happiness can be felt if you don't set any conditions." ARTUR RUBINSTEIN (1956 )

Be Happy as You Want to Be

Almost everyone have heard the hit single 'Don't Worry, Be Happy' by Bobby McFerrin. The song has a very catchy way of conveying its message of being happy to everyone. Bobby Mcferiin's simple message surely made a lot of people by telling them not to worry.

Living a happy, resilient and optimistic life is wonderful, and is also good for your health and thus longer lifespan. Why be sad and lonely? Being happy actually protects you from the stresses and tension of life. Stress is linked to top causes of death such as heart disease, cancer and stroke. Stress and tension are negative feelings. So negative feelings attracts negative results such as you know, heart disease, cancer, stroke, etc.

One of the better things ever said is - The only thing in life that will always remain the same is change, and in our life we have the power to make the necessary changes if we want to. Even if we find ourselves in an unbearable situation we can always find solace in the knowledge that it too would change and if you wanted to.

Social networks or relationships are essential to happiness. People are different, accept people for who or what they are, avoid clashes, constant arguments, and let go of all kinds of resentments. If arguments seem unavoidable, still try and make an effort to understand the situation and you might just get along fine. If only the people of this world can communicate more, then this world will be a better place to live. Maybe no more wars?

Happiness is actually found in everyone, increasing it is a way to make life more wonderful and also more healthy for all of us.

To be happy is relatively easy, just decide to be a happy person. Abraham Lincoln observed that most people for most of the time can choose how happy or stressed, how relaxed or troubled, how bright or dull their outlook to be. The choice is simple really, choose to be happy.

There are several ways by which you can do this.

Being grateful is a great attitude. We have so much to be thankful for. Thank the taxi driver for bringing you home safely, thank the cook for a wonderful dinner and thank the guy who cleans your windows. Also thank the mailman for bringing your mails, thank the policeman for making your place safe and thank God for being alive. The other day,

I saw a local news of a man who had to have half his lower body amputated because of a serious disease. After the operation, the man was even more joyful because he said that now he is feeling more fresh than before. Because previously, his diseased organ is always causing him pain and sickly. He has been suffering like this for about 10 years. I am impressed by his bright outlook. Here is a man who don't have half his lower body and yet he look at the positive side of the situation.

News is stressful. Get less of it. Some people just can't start their day without their daily dose of news. Try and think about it, 99% of the news we hear or read is bad news. Why? Because the newspaper knows that there are money in bad news. Starting the day with bad news does not seem to be a sensible thing to do.

A religious connection is also recommended. Being part of a religious group with its singing, sacraments, chanting, prayers and meditations foster inner peace.

Manage your time. Time is invaluable and too important to waste. Time management can be viewed as a list of rules that involves scheduling, setting goals, planning, creating lists of things to do and prioritizing. These are the core basics of time management that should be understood to develop an efficient personal time management skill. These basic skills can be fine tuned further to include the finer points of each skill that can give you that extra reserve to make the results you desire.

Laugh and laugh heartily everyday. Heard a good joke? Tell your friends or family about it. As they also say -'Laughter is the best medicine'.

Express your feelings, affections, friendship and passion to people around you. They will most likely reciprocate your actions. Try not to keep pent up anger of frustrations, this is bad for your health. Instead find ways of expressing them in a way that will not cause more injury or hurt to anyone.

Working hard brings tremendous personal satisfaction. It gives a feeling of being competent in finishing our tasks. Accomplishments are necessary for all of us, they give us a sense of value. Work on things that you feel worthy of your time.

Learning is a joyful exercise. Try and learn something new everyday. Learning also makes us expand and broaden our horizons. And could also give us more opportunities in the future.

Run, jog, walk and do other things that your body was made for. Feel alive.

Avoid exposure to negative elements like loud noises, toxins and hazardous places.

These are the few simple things you can do everyday to be happy.

And always remember the quote from Abraham Lincoln, he says that, "Most people are about as happy as they make up their minds to be." So, don't be sad and lonely.

I have suffered a great sadness from childhood up till adult stage. I have read many great books on self-development and have manage to get through life's hardship. I would like to share some thoughts with others so that they may not have to suffer so much. Life is actually wonderful , if you know how to live it, just as your computer is a great machine , if only you know how to really use it. So happiness is really up to you.

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