Relationships Attraction: Appearance Isn't Everything
- Author Nanette Geiger
- Published July 13, 2010
- Word count 424
These are the findings from a study done by a popular dating site.
What are the most important features of a partner:
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Appearance 11%
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Personality 30%
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Body 5%
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Sense of Humor 14%
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Eyes 10%
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Popularity 0%
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Smile 12%
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Hair 7%
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Education 7%
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Career 3%
As you can see, personality is at the top, with nothing else even getting close!
What does this say about a person? What does it mean for two people dating? It says that personality, regardless of what side of the table you are on, is a wanted trait from any person's point of view.
Now, 'Appearance' is in many cases viewed as a visual representation of a person. But as you can see, 'Personality' was rated number one. Personality, being confident in yourself, an engaging demeaner, warmth, and being authentic are the characteristics that are vastly more important than visual appearance. There are many of us are hung up on physical appearance, we get halted before we start. If you need the help of a Law of Attraction Coach, by all means get support! Using an independent listener to check in with can help you move away from old patterns much faster.
What are characteristics of personality? Confidence. Self-confidence to be precise. The capability to relax, enjoy, and communicate in relaxed and engaging subjects. Using the Law of Attraction is amazingly helpful for Relationships Attraction, and it's not difficult to grasp.
What are inherent traits of being confident in yourself?
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Knowing what you want.
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Being assured of yourself. Being sure that what you desire is within your grasp.
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Esteem. Knowing you are worthy of what you want.
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Poise. In most situations you stay calm.
What I'm pointing to is the non-physical characteristics of 'Personality'. A stimulating personality has nothing to do with physical appearances. You can attract your own Law of Attraction Relationships right now and sky-rocket your level of positive energy!
A lot of people I have met, whether they're getting back into the dating game, or simply thinking about it get stopped with the externals of the scene. "I'm not a spring chicken anymore." "I cannot compete with the attractive people." "The singles game is so superficial."
That type of mental monologue will never get you back out into circulation. Feeling confident, holding an engaging attitude, and simply keeping a ready, genuine smile and being kind, are the winners of the day. Realize that you do not need to do the singles thing. You can find Mr. or Ms. Right in the grocery store, at church, on a bike ride, anywhere. Don't hold yourself by what others say.
Nanette Geiger is a relationship coach and author of many books and articles focusing on Relationships, the Law of Attraction and Self-Mastery. You can find more helpful articles on the Resource Page and books on the publications page of her website at http://www.NanetteGeiger.com
You CAN have the Relationship of your Dreams! Download Nanette's latest FREE Video on the #1 Secret to find and keep the love of your dreams. http://www.magneticattractioncoaching.com/
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