I really like to be divorced . Is that your statement ? i bet your are just frustrated and tired of the whole relationship thing. If we do a statistic now and check out how many people want to be divorcee, the ratio would certainly not be much. Because no sane person prays to be separated from the person they love but if we twist the question a little and say, how many want to divorce their current partner, i know a lot of hands would now be up because a lot of people are tired of their partner and they want something better.

Some would ask now what has your spouse or partner done? but i do not think that is the question so what is the question, it is why did they fall in love with the person from start, what was the the connection that brought them together.

Do not let us deceive ourselves,it takes more than just meeting someone in a shopping mall and making eye contact,then you say you feel a connection tot the person and then you begin to believe its love have fallen love, or maybe you go to a movie and you meet someone which resulted to a date.Lets assume the person was nice for a couple of times, then you say again i have fallen in love.

NO, NO, NO (NOPE)... you are in LUST.

When you rush into love you rush into divorce and loneliness, whatever you plan for you execute properly but what you do not plan for you take it has it comes.

You marriage should be your joy and pride and divorce should not be in your line of history at all.o do not be a victim of it by

1. Make sure you do not rush into love or rush into falling in love. Take your time and open your eyes. Watch out for the things that would make you happy for a long time in your partner not just for some temporary time. Test your partner with a lot of situations around. If there are none create one so that you would know if such a person would stand with you for long.Do not leave anything to chance, do the ones you can do.

2. Do not fall in love for the wrong reasons for instance, you love him because he is cute, she has Grey eyeballs and shes rich blah,blah, blah. You are in for a speedy divorce because when real time situations come around it starts from the physical. If the riches fade you wont say and if he has an accident on the face you wont wait either. So love for the correct reasons, like the agility of such a person, the ability to turn nothing into something,the zeal to make you his or her spouse happy and comfortable.

3. Always be prepared, because stormy days are ahead. You cannot do without a fight or two. So you need to know how to handle your spouse when it comes to that. You would always face a challenge at least, be prepared to take over the challenge and not the challenge taking over you.