Many men who discover that their women have been cheating on them ask themselves such questions. If your girl has cheated on you, is it possible that she could still really love you? The simple answer is that this is possible. Is it possible for your relationship to weather the storms of cheating and get back on track? She may still love you and be interested in working at saving your relationship. Both of you will need to be committed and work very hard to achieve this. However, when you consider the benefits you will gain, you will be able to take the hard work more easily.

If you have been asking yourself why she has been cheating while she says she loves you, you should understand that the answer may not be as straight forward as you would like. The fact still remains that she really loves you. You should, however, understand that people have different needs, including your girl. While she may still love you deeply, she may have an affair to try to fulfill a need that she feels still lacks in your relationship. She may even cheat because she feels that she is not in a position to meet your own needs.

Almost every woman in a relationship would like to make her guy happy. Your woman wants to feel that you really need her in your life. She needs to know that you appreciate her. If you fail to make her feel useful to you, she is very likely to go to someone who seems to appreciate her in spite of all the love she feels for you.

When your woman cheats, you will be mistaken to think that it is because she no longer loves you. Neither may it have anything to do with you or even sex in the first place. When she cheats, it shows that there is something she lacks in the relationship, which she is trying to get elsewhere.

Is her cheating the end of your relationship?

The answer to this question will largely depend on your own reaction after you discover what has been going on. You should understand that if she wanted to call it quits, she would have done so instead of getting involved in an affair. Do not think that women start cheating just for the thrill of it.

After your painful discovery, you will need to ask yourself some probing questions.

A) Are you prepared to put her cheating off your mind and re-establish your relationship?

B) Will you accept to give whatever it was that she got from the other guy that made her feel loved and appreciated?

C) If you put your whole relationship in a balance, can you say that it is indeed worth saving? Have you had better times than bad ones?

D) Do you believe that she is not likely to go astray next time? You need to know whether you risk getting into a vicious cycle that will take a heavy toll on you.