If you find out that your woman has cheated on you, you will be faced with two equally tough choices. Will you need to stay or walk away from your relationship? There is no one clear-cut answer that will suit every person, for you need to take a number of factors into serious consideration. Here are some of the things that you should bear in mind if you want to make up your mind on what to do.

Is this a repeat offence?

Perhaps your woman had cheated earlier and you had already made up before she went back to cheating once more. In such a case, there are basically three different choices open to you. You can decide to dig deeper than before to determine what she gets outside your relationship that you seem to fail to give her. You may also resolve to turn a blind eye on her cheating and continue with your relationship as if the other man does not exist. Alternatively, you may decide that enough is enough and move on with your own life without her.

Her cheating happened once

It could be that your woman was carried over and cheated once. She may have stopped after the first act because of different reasons. For example, the guilt she felt may have been so overwhelming that she decided to avoid such a situation again. Or she may have come to her senses after that first mess and realized that she loved you too much to cheat on you. There are very high chances of forming an even stronger relationship, and you should really give her a chance to make up for her mistake.

It may be her first affair but it has not stopped

If your wife keeps seeing that other man then you will have even tougher choices. If you decide that you do not want to lose her then you will need to take decisive action fast. You do not expect to heal your relationship when there is still someone between you.

This is one place where it is in order to use an ultimatum. You will need to have a stand and let her choose between you and her new lover and then stick to your decision unwaveringly. Let her decide once and for all.

She seems to waver between you and her lover

The situation where she finds it difficult to choose between you and her lover is not common. However, it is even more delicate and needs a lot of care. This will show that she is being honest, and you will need to be honest in turn. You can either decide to stand by her, in which case you will need to have a very persuasive tongue. If you want to succeed, you will need to know what she gets from her affair and find appropriate ways of fulfilling her need. You then need to make the right approach. On the other hand, you may decide the case for her and send her off.