Is it possible your man is leading a double life? Could he be sneaking around, having a secret love affair behind your back? You might have had your suspicions, but really were not sure. More than likely you just chalked it up to silly thoughts in your head. Well the time has come to learn what to look for in a cheating spouse.

Most of the time a cheating lifestyle is plainer than we realize - we just are not aware of the signs and red flags or just mistakenly trust our man too much. Once you start to look for these mannerisms, it should become clearer that your man is leading a double life.

Off In La-La Land

When someone enters a relationship, they become overly obsessed in thought about the other person. They revisit their past rendezvous' and fantasize about their next encounter. This "thought obsession" is so overwhelming that pretty much everything else in their lives takes a back seat - including you!

Just think back to the first few dates with any past loves - you should realize how much you thought about them. This cheating trait should be pretty obvious - especially when you start to feel out of the picture with your partner. They probably do not want to do much of anything, conversation is minimal, and they probably will spend a whole bunch of time alone by themselves. The last thing they want is something to distract them from thoughts of their lover.

I Am To Sexy For That Old Shirt

Whether you agree or not, new relationships are all about impressing each other. We want to be noticed by the opposite sex and will do pretty much anything to accomplish that. As we learn more about this new love, we start to see what they like and dislike, and in turn mold our very being to what gets you noticed.

You might see that your significant other has changed their hairstyle, maybe they have started to brandish a new cologne or their life-long conservative clothing choices become flashy and way out there. These changes should not be taken lightly! Most people get used to the "some old, same old" and drastic changes to outward appearance have something pushing from the sidelines. If your man is leading a double life, you probably will see some changes like this, so keep an eye (and nose) out for them.

Perspiration, nerves and "jumpy jumpy"

If your man is leading a double life, they are likely to be on edge - all the time. They are risking everything they know by cheating and will be on the lookout for getting caught day and night. They will have moments of extreme anxiety and paranoia - a ringing phone could have them jumping. You might notice they look over their shoulders a lot when out in public, scanning the landscape. The last thing they want to happen is getting nabbed in public when their secret lover walks up!

They will question all of your actions, as if you were on to them already and accuse you of giving them the third degree. A cheating partner does not do a very good job of hiding their secret double life due to their stressful actions. If you suspect them of cheating, you might want to act like you know there is something up - watch them squirm! Catching them in the act is the last thing they want to happen.