Did you know that there is a mistake that most women make after you finish with your boyfriend? Moreover, if you make this mistake your chances to recover your boyfriend is practically zero. In this article, you will discover exactly what this error, and how you can avoid it without doing anything.

Have you ever heard your ex-boyfriend saying "just wants to be friends" after I finish with you? Almost all the former partners say that, and if you accept, you're only making matters worse. You would think that if you are still around him as a friend, this could help you recover, but in reality the closer you are to it, the lower your chances of recovery.

When a man says he wants to remain as just a friend do it for their own reasons, which are very selfish, and have nothing to do with back together eventually. The fact is that your ex boyfriend is too used to having you around, and is comfortable for him if you are. If you want to be his friend and most of all, is for the simple reason that they want you to disappear forever, but you're there to stop him, but only when he pleases.

There is also a second reason why a man takes this attitude, and is even worse. Very often makes it very difficult for a man to overcome a breakup, especially if it was the beginning. This is why I often prefer to keep close to his ex-girlfriend, as a safety net. Thus if he is rejected by a woman, you can still get you for that emotional support and to make you feel good. After all there is a woman (you) who still appreciate it, but that which has no long-term plans.

Both reasons are very cruel to you, the ex-girlfriend. It is best to never agree to be friends after a separation. You do not have to be malicious either, just tell him to keep it in your life would be too painful for you, and you prefer to cut communications for a while. If you do this, your ex was stunned, and often begin to seek your approval, which eventually can result in positive actions to return as a couple.