You just broke up with your ex. You have successfully drove your ex love out of your life. No more pointless fights, no more sleepless nights, no more crying yourself to sleep, and all that jazz. But after some time, you still find yourself incomplete. Then you realize that you just made the biggest mistake in your life - and that is letting him go. A lot of women have been in this exact situation. Maybe you think that breaking up with your ex may be your only way to overcome your relationship problem, but in fact, couples can overcome any problem as long as they work together. Now that you want to reconcile with your ex, let me share you some ways on how to help you bring it all back.

As they say, it takes two to tango. A failed relationship is caused by a failure from both parties. One way or another you also contributed something for the relationship to end up in a break up. So before even thinking of getting your ex back, look at yourself and reflect. Maybe there's something wrong with you that you need to work on. Have a makeover, doll it up, bring sexy back. I know you can't change your personality, but if you're the naggy and jealous type of girlfriend then at least try to tone it down a little. I'm telling you, it will really make a huge difference and your guy would appreciate you more.

Now the next thing that you have to do is to let go of your pride, your hate and guilt, and talk to your ex. Communication is very important in any relationship. Go to the root of your problem and ask yourselves why is it like that, or what could be the cause of your problem. Look at the issue from both sides, your side and his side. Remember that for a relationship to be successful, both parties should be able to communicate and express what he or she feels. Lack of communication will only cause more fights, misunderstandings and breakups. Take some time to cool down first though before talking to your ex. This way, you have more control of your emotions and you will be able to express your feelings in a better way.

Getting back to a relationship is a challenge. The chances of getting back together may or may not be successful. You have to prepare yourself to get hurt again so be careful. But as they say, true love prevails so if it's true love, then whatever happens, you will still find yourselves together no matter what.