So you say you really want to get your ex back don’t you ? Well, this article is dedicated for you ladies who desperately want to get your ex boyfriend back, meaning you’ll do whatever it takes.

Everybody’s been through at least one painful breakup in which the position of the heart broken shadowed your capacity of clearly looking upon the situation and so it degenerated into a breakup you would soon regret.

As a girl, I could say I’ve been through all the phases of a breakup : anger, repulsion, autosuggestion, depression, reestablishing contact by any means, compromises and finally, wrong choices that made me establish a set of values and "unwritten" rules about how to proceed to get your ex boyfriend back

You have to understand that it’s not a competition in which you hope you’ll make him miraculously give up on his decision and reasons and you would then "win" the breakup.

To fully understand how to get your ex boyfriend back, you have to truly understand men. It’s that easy but also very hard. Men are not easily understood, even though some of you may think you have the secret. Men are odd in many ways and you have to know on which aspects to put emphasis on.

The statute of ex girlfriend is not a permanent one. No way ! Being the ex girlfriend holds on the other hand advantages and privileges that one can wisely use for achieving your desired purpose. His friends, the social circle in which he stands, family (which plays a major role), and last but not least, the pleasures of any nature you had the opportunity to offer him, are from start some aces in your sleeve you have to take in consideration.

First of all, analyze yourself and try to clarify if you really want this. Don’t waste your physical and mental resources over an illusion or vanity. Be the girl of your dreams to regain the self confidence that you’ll regain the man you once charmed with your presence. Feel good in your skin, be always good looking because, let’s face it, sex-appeal is an essential brick in the wall of attraction. Whatever a man says, he’ll always look at a woman’s body and he’s opinion of a woman is always going to be based 70% on how she looks.

It’s not a secret ladies… men love sex. It’s not that they love it, it’s pretty much all up in their head. This being said, a man sees a whole lot different a woman that pleases him sexually. In other words, nobody likes a woman that just stays there and acts like it’s a job. You have to really be passionate about it and work him! Sorry for being so dirty, but this is just the truth! And it’s not just about sex-driven relationships, but the normal ones that are really affected… when a man loves you but just wants something more sexually satisfying! Don’t give them that feeling!!! If you really have some sexual problems, please fix them; it’s essential! The next time you make love show him a more wild and passionate face and he’ll be all yours.

Now, remaining in civilized terms, a friendship between you two, as recently broken up, may relapse very easily. All it takes Is patience, understanding and maybe a little more from you. The woman is considered the gentle sex, so don’t deny your given right from birth. Be sexy! Be seductive and at the same time ambiguous, give him everything minus the essential… So he can feel the difference in not having you like before.

Establish your priorities with wisdom then follow the basic steps in getting back your ex boyfriend: gain field in front of his friends, be opened and cheerful, recall the happy moments of your relationship, assure him support but in the same time keep a distant note so that he feels the pressure of not being together.

Family is the most important thing in life. Parents, especially the mother, are the most important thing for a child, because of the support, help and guidance they offer when he most needs something. So, look to be invited at his family’s home and praise their great son more or less subtle, preferably, with him not around.

As a woman it’s impossible to not look up to his pleasures, hobbies, customs and things he hates. A relationship is actually a road to knowing each other, that one travels or not in time.

The little pleasures and the thoughtful attention will not just pass by him. Be pleasant at sight; give a little bit of ingenious and at the same time be feminine, sensual… You’ll notice a change of behavior guaranteed!