How to Attract A Girl - Three Frequently Overlooked Points

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  • Author Alan Robinson
  • Published February 10, 2011
  • Word count 569

Learning how to attract a girl doesn't mean that you have to "train" yourself in a club. Of course you still can do that and it'll be a good experience, but the key points in attracting a girl are actually the same regardless of where you do it. Once you master them all, you only need to do little modifications to adjust them with places, time, and the general situation.

  1. Let the girl realize from the start that you’re thinking about her in romantic way

If you approach the girl and act like the friendliest guy on the planet, you might get her attention. You might even wind up having her contact number, emails, address, and so on. Nevertheless, do you win her heart? Nope. And exactly why is that? Because you’ve trapped at being a "guy friend"!

Becoming friends first, then make it into a romance is possible, but it’s fairly difficult because she doesn’t view you as a potential lover in the first place. Don’t just act friendly and have "friendly" conversation. You must flirt with her from the beginning. That’s the only way to tell her that you’re thinking about her in romantic way. Having said that, remember to keep the flirtious attitude adjusted to the circumstance and location.

  1. Express high social status

How many gorgeous girls are dating a guy whose self esteem is so low that he requests his girlfriend approval for everything? Indeed, next to none. And that's precisely what you have to do: show higher social status than her. Men who don’t know how to attract a girl properly often have it wrong on this matter; they always think it is about success or money.

Well, while being richer than the girl can help, that’s not the main issue. I’ve seen rich guys who practically become their wife’s slave. One word from their wife and they'll run like a trained dog. Don’t become like them.

The main point in conveying high social status is never demanding her approval for anything. Show her that you've got your personal way of thinking and you don’t need her to agree with it. Additionally, keep teasing and making fun of her; don't let her know that you believe she’s extremely attractive and you can’t wait to have her in your arms.

  1. Body language

This is goes hand in hand with the 2nd point. Having high self confidence around her will demonstrate to her that you’re a man of high social status. When approaching an extremely attractive girl, sometimes we already get "she’s way out of my league" idea in our head. You need to get rid of that way of thinking and begin to value yourself more.

Show this self-appreciation to her: walk with upright posture, keep eye-to-eye contact, walk slowly, and don’t play anything with your hands. Basically, show her that you are able to stay calm and keep "being you" around her.

Knowing how to attract a girl is not that complicated. Most guys put too much attention on small details such as funny pickup lines or their clothes brand, but that kind of things only play a small part of the game. Rather, you should putting all your effort to master the 3 vital aspects above. When you do that, you'll be surprised by the result.

See how the three tips above being applied at pickup beautiful girls. Moreover, see more about attracting a girl on how to get the girl you want.

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