A relationship break up and even the slightest fight and separation is heart breaking for both the partner. If you are desperate and cannot stop obsessing to yourself "How can I get my ex boyfriend back?" then you are at the right place.

First, let's examine back your relationship. Were there repeated times that both of you fought due to a same or similar reason? Chances are, the both of you have not found a way to handle it thus giving it an opportunity to wreck your relationship from time to time. Don't let this happen and solve the root cause of the problem.

Here are the common mistakes women make that led to their man leaving their relationship. It is all tiny details but is harmful to relationships. It is a proven pest to relationship as it has caused many relationship break ups due to negligence of small problems.You are much smarter than that and you can check against yourself if you are committing any of these relationship crimes and you can stand a chance to win your ex boyfriend back.

Clingy – There are women who, became dependent after they get into a relationship. They stop making decisions and start letting their boyfriend decide even the tiniest matter. Not only are you losing your attractiveness, you are basically losing yourself from your unique personality. You can start to keep yourself busy and distracts yourself when he is not around.

Bossy – Some women changed drastically and become some bossy woman in their man's life. You starts demanding more and more and ordering him to comply to your wishes. Delegation is good, but shared responsibilities are better.If you keep bossing him around and pushing him to do things he don't like, you will then elevate to the next level, which will result to criticism. If you can see clearly what is going on, it simply leads to more destructive actions and eventually is what caused your break up.

Closed Up – Some people tend to tread carefully in their relationship. Maybe because they are still new and are not sure of what pricks her partner. With insecurities such as fear of losing him, a woman can become too careful that she didn't know she was building a wall around her, not being open with her partner and is madly controlling her every emotions to maintain a perfect relationship. Forget about perfection. Make mistakes, quickly apologize and learn together. With mistakes, you can learn and understand each other thus creating a strong and stickier bond.

These are the common mistakes that many women made that wreck their relationships, if not drove it to a lot of intense argument. You need to open up both sides to enable open communication. Mind reading don't exists in relationships and you are responsible for showing or hiding things. Don't blame or hold grudges. Let go, learn and grow together.

Hopefully these tips can help you with that question in your mind, which is "how to get my ex boyfriend back?" that you've been asking yourself too much after obsessing over your break up. Get up now and start putting plan to actions.