There have been countless songs and movies written about it. We’ve all experienced it at least once in our lives … The fact is, breaking up is hard to do. To be honest, a breakup can be a defining moment in your life. The pain and punishment we put ourselves through can be very grueling, especially if it came out of left field and was not a mutual decision. It’s totally normal for you to feel heartbroken, sullen, sad or even downright angry during the breakup process. But despite all this emotional upheaval, if you still harbor any of those romantic sentiments for your ex and think you want to try to work things out, then there are steps you can take. I have outlined some helpful tips for you to follow to assist you in how to win your guy back and return him to your loving arms.

If you are to be successful in winning your guy back, then the art of seduction is your best weapon in your arsenal of love. Allure back to you with your warmth and charm instead of attempting to throw yourself at him like a bimbo. Remember, challenges are one of man’s best friends. They always want what they can’t or don’t have. Caveat, boredom is a man’s worst enemy. So never let your guy get bored, because, if he gets what he wants too easily or quickly, then he will become bored and lose interest. This is worth its weight in gold, so use this knowledge to your advantage.

Make sure you keep him at arms length. As we all know, men are attracted visually. Beautiful girls that are happy, confident and independent will exude an aura that will be visually appealing to men. But under no circumstances are you to become his stalker. Tracking his every move, calling repeatedly or texting nonstop is not only counter productive. It’s very likely to drive him away forever. Needy and clingy girls do one thing … and that is to repel men. These types of girls are notorious for causing lots of drama. And drama is bad.

Concentrate on you for a change. Always make sure you’re looking good and put together. Go out and have some fun and maybe you’ll run into some of his friends. Wouldn’t that be a hoot if his friends saw you out somewhere, looking all happy and hot with your hair and make-up flawlessly done wearing a cute little outfit, having a great time without him. Now imagine them going back to him and reporting how hot you were looking? That’s sure to get him thinking that maybe, just maybe he made a mistake. Yes, you’ve turned into a real hotty which causes him to start reminiscing on how good things used to be. He begins thinking that maybe he needs you back on his arm again, real soon.

Hold your chin up high and be confident. A woman with confidence is very appealing to men. Think back to when he first told you he loved you and try to recapture the essence of that girl. I’m sure you have an outfit that drove him crazy. Why not pull it out? Maybe you can stir his memory, amongst other things, to those magical times when you two were dating and things between you were great. It just might make him wonder … and maybe start yearning for that reconciliation.

These are just a few very basic tips you can implement, but it gives you an idea on how to win your guy back. Believe me, it’s not going to be a walk in the park, but if you’re still in head over heels in love with him, then you should be willing to put in the effort to do whatever it takes to win him back. Don’t get me wrong, it’s entirely possible for the two of your to be happy in each other’s company again, but the trick is to fall in love all over again, this time for keeps. Best of luck!