Just wanting to get your girlfriend back is no longer a good enough reason. Get over yourself and stop sulking because you’re wasting all of your precious time pondering what went wrong. Suck it up and be a man! Grab the bull by the horns and take some initiative. Prove to her that you’re made of sterner stuff. You’ll have her back in your arms in no time with what I call my "Get Your Girlfriend Back in Six Suave Moves Plan".

First and foremost, you must close that gap that has come between you and your partner. Openly discuss your honest feelings. Your feelings are your feelings and attempting to mask them will only widen the gap and that’s counter productive. Remember, these matters concern you both, so don’t hold back. If you’re the strong silent type, then it’s time to set aside those traits and embrace your sensitive side. There are two voices in any relationship and it’s high time yours was heard, so start talking. It is essential to keep the lines of communication open. I believe that calling her is the best way to start, but if she won’t take your calls, then sending an e-mail or text message will do just fine. Today, the world stresses the importance of communication in any way possible so there is no reason for you not to contact her. I had to learn the hard way. You might want to try what I did and that’s send her roses with a note that expressed my feelings for her. She thought it was a very romantic gesture. I scored major point with that one. It may sound corny to some (and to you, I’m sure), but let me tell you, these gestures will be greatly appreciated by your girl. A little bit of effort on your part will go a long way, believe me.

Remembering is another essential key! Numbers are important, whether it’s her cell telephone number or her father’s birthday, women place a great deal of significance on dates and numbers that have deep emotional meaning to them. . I know guys aren’t into this sort of stuff, but with today’s technology, there’s no valid reason for you to ever forget. Program your smart phone to let you know these important dates. So next time one rolls around, surprise her with your new found memory of her birthday or your anniversary. It’s something she’ll never forget, believe me. And if you can’t remember the anniversary of when the two of you officially became a couple, then move heaven and earth to figure it out. Placing importance on those things that represent your relationship, no matter how small, means you are giving validation to that exceptional connection the two of you share. Once you master all the dates and numbers relevant to your relationship, there’s a good chance you could get your girlfriend back.

And please, whatever you do, under no circumstances do you want to scare her by becoming a stalker! Communication is all well and good, but harassing her with phone calls, especially the late night ones, might freak her out. Actions like this make you look hopeless or creepy instead of sincere. Instead, spend that valuable time improving yourself. Whatever the outcome, improving ones self is always worth the effort. Forget the reason for the break-up or who started it. At this point it doesn’t matter. What’s done is done. Focus on the positive things the two of you share and strengthen those things that made you fall in love with each other in the first place. Throw away anything that you feel is destructive to your relationship. Any item, subject or past memory that causes an argument is not worth the effort. Purge it out of your life as soon as possible and forget about it. Learn to pick your battles.

Your most important goal should be to remain positive. Optimism can go a long way. If you believe that everything will be alright, then there’s a good chance it will be. In the end, if the relationship can’t be rescued, then at least you will have learned from your mistakes, because if you don’t, you’re destined to repeat them in your next relationship.

Getting a girlfriend to come back and recommit may be daunting, but not impossible. There are a myriad of ways to achieve this, but the best way is a personalized and unique approach tailored specifically to you and your ex-girlfriend. If I could do it, so can you.