You've heard the saying "Breaking up is hard to do". The truth is, a break up can be quite a major moment in one's life. The experience is often very unpleasant and grueling, especially if it was not your decision, wasn't mutual or even came out of the blue.

It’s absolutely normal that you would feel hurt, depressed, sad even angry in the aftermath of a breakup. Yet in spite of this, if you should still have feelings for your ex and know you'd like to try to make things work out, there are steps you can take to turn everything around.

Listed here are a handful of helpful pointers that can help you win your guy back again and deliver him back into your loving arms once again.

So that you can succeed in getting your guy back, you will need to learn the art of seduction. Attract him back into your arms with all your warmth and charm as opposed to trying to force yourself on him. It’s no secret guys like challenges.

They typically want what they can’t or don’t have. And additionally, when they get what they want too easily or quickly, they frequently get bored and lose interest. Make use of this knowledge to your benefit.

Maintain some space between you. Men are interested in beautiful girls - girls that are happy, self-confident as well as independent. Don't turn into a stalker and track his every move or call or even text every two hours. This is not only counter-productive, it’s very likely going to turn him away from you. Men don't like needy and clingy girls that are inclined to cause a whole lot of drama.

Start focusing on yourself. Go out of your way to ensure you’re always looking your best. Wouldn’t it be perfect for his friends to see you out someplace, looking all happy and hot, hair and make-up done, looking unbelievable.

Now can't you picture them going back to him and reporting how fantastic you are looking? That’s guaranteed to get him thinking about you. Now he's thinking he might have made a huge mistake. Of course, you absolutely are looking great. He's probably starting to think he wants and needs you back on his arm once again.

Be confident in yourself. A self-assured and confident woman is extremely appealing to men. You need to get back and become once more the same girl that he fell deeply in love with. You might even stir his memory by wearing those hot outfits he found you so sexy in back once you were dating. This just might make him wistful and consider getting back together.

I have listed some very simple actions you can actually do. This should give you a few real good ideas on how to win your guy back. This won't be the easiest thing you ever do, but if you're still crazy about him, then you should be prepared to invest enough time to do what it takes so you can get him back into your arms yet again.

It’s very possible for both of you to be happy more then before in each other’s company and much more in love than in the past.