Remember when you promised to love each other for better or worse? The fact is that,the ‘worse’ has happened and now you may be looking at the final stages of your marriage. A shattered marriage, or one that's about to break apart can be very tough to put back together. Men of all ages who've been down this road understand exactly how painful and overwhelming it really is.

It can be overwhelming when you're left on your own, left to deal with the possibility of life minus the one person you love more then anything. Yet somehow, you can't lose faith. Getting your wife back again is not impossible if you truly want to get her to return. If you do, this may require a lot of effort on your part, but only if you're serious .

So, now you're asking just what can you do to win back her heart. First focus on all the things you did before that got your wife to fall in love with you to begin with. Find that person she fell deeply in love with. Call attention to the qualities that you utilized to win your wifes heart back in the days before you two got married.

Getting her to fall in love with you all over again could take lots of time and effort and most importantly patience, but the truth is you can do it. You have to be serious about your goal, yet be intelligent about it also. Following her every movement or phoning her every two minutes will unquestionably not be advantageous, and in fact will be disastrous.

What will work is to always let her no how beautiful great she is. This requires plenty of courage on your part to make this happen, then again be sincere and honest and you will shine through to her. Swallow your pride, you're not going to need it anyway. It is critical to focus on her and the ultimate goal of rebuilding love and trust.

Identify your own short comings and errors and do your very best to understand and learn from them. You should discuss these things together with her, don't just beg for her to forgive you. No woman wishes to see her husband pleading and crying for help, particularly about making decisions.

Prove to her that you're very serious with your reasons for reconciling. Impress her with all your patience and persistence. If she declines any of your offers, don’t create a big issue about it. Remember it's her choice to do this. She still clearly needs some time to think things over.

Make an effort to understand your wife’s reasons, feelings and viewpoint. Try to remember all the things that drove her mad and created turmoil between both of you. Think about the issues or even circumstances that made her want to leave. Learn from this and find solutions to not just avoid these problems in the future but make them better.

This requires lots of self-control plus a completely new sense of commitment to successfully win back your wife. Work on positive approaches and dedicate your time to improving yourself and your relationship skills and getting her back instead of feeling mad. Be her best friend, her lover and husband, and once you've got her back, never ever let her go again.