The unthinkable has happened, your boyfriend has left you. Mistakes have been made, you've been misunderstood and differences in viewpoints abounded, sending little cracks throughout your once-seemingly fabulous relationship right up until your break-up. Now what do you do? You desperately want things to work out and have him fall back into your loving arms again. Below are a few helpful suggestions if you are really serious about getting him back.

You first need to focus on yourself. For you to solve your broken relationship you first need to recognize what went wrong in it. Take an honest look at your relationship and understand why it fell apart. It may not have even been your fault and perhaps your breakup was a result of his problems and if that's the reason, you may not even want to save it. However, if you're able to admit some problems were your fault and you can learn from them, it's possible things may work out.

So now you’re eager to do something just for him to express how committed you are and how much you need and care for him. Not so fast, first be the best you can be when it comes to beauty and styling. Remind him the beautiful person he once was madly in love with. Try to be genuine so when you see each other once again, he may want to talk to on the spot.

Your friends can be hugely influential in your decisions, therefore win his friends over if you can. If you run into them, let them see your good side and share your story without appearing dramatic, clingy, or defensive. You don’t want to sound needy or even pushy. Their feedback with regards to you can have a huge influence on your boyfriend’s view point.

Remain positive all the time. Don't show any sign of pessimism, sadness or imbalance or you might destroy any possibility to get back together. This will only damage your attempts in bridging the gap between you, therefore avoid them no matter what. Being positive is very attractive and very contagious.

Before you go down this road to win back his heart, make sure you keep a little dignity for yourself. There's nothing wrong in displaying your love and appreciation for that special someone however appearing like a fool or even a stalker is a different story. Show respect for yourself and he will respect you as well.

Finally, think about this extremely important question, "Do you really want him back?" Your love plus the determination you convey can help guide your decisions. Should you notice that your attempts are uncompensated, maybe you are possibly not doing enough. What ever approach you take will reflect what's inside of you. If you don’t believe it's possible to win him back again and if you don’t truly want to win him back, you won’t.

By following these suggestions you'll have a very good chance of saving your relationship. Be open and honest as well as a good listener and before too long you’ll have your man back in your loving arms once again.