How to Attract Women Without Having a Lot of Money or a Cool Car

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  • Author Tom Ford
  • Published May 9, 2011
  • Word count 425

So many guys place unnecessary limitations on themselves in terms of dating and attracting women. If I had a dime for every time I heard a guy say that he needs to have money, a cool car, or a perfect body to attract high quality women... I'd be rich. The funny thing is, none of those things are really all that important to most women, especially not in the context of just meeting and dating a woman. So, if those are the limits that you have been placing upon yourself, why not take them off for a while and see what happens?

Here are a few tips on how to attract women without a lot of money or a cool car:

  1. Let the REAL YOU shine through.

We all have a side of ourselves that we kind of hide or we downplay that would actually help to attract women. Being too reserved or downplaying your personality is definitely not going to do you any good, especially if you lack the funds and the hot ride sitting out in the parking lot. Are there some women who absolutely judge a guy's worthiness based on those things? You bet there are, but they are rarer than you might think and usually would not be worth dating anyway.

  1. Turn off that voice inside your head that says you are not good enough for her.

One of the things that I really hate to see is when I am out with a buddy of mine, I see he has his eyes on a really good looking woman, and he plays it off like she is out of his league. Thinking you are not good enough for a certain woman is usually just that negative voice inside you that is holding you back. Try to think of it as if no woman is really out of your league.

  1. Frame yourself as being the "prize" and the rest will take care of itself.

In almost all male/female situations, the woman is seen as being the prize. It's usually the guy who is trying hard to win her over and trying to prove himself as being worthy of dating her. Change that around and start seeing yourself as the prize and make her prove herself to YOU. You might think it's being cocky at first, but it's really just being confident in yourself and what you have to offer. And I can assure you that women will start to try and qualify themselves to you if you start doing this regularly.

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