Losing a girlfriend can end up devastating a guy. When you have to sit there and deal with the possibility that she might be serious and she might really move on to another guy, it can be enough to send your head spinning. You have to find a way to get your girlfriend back, but it has to be something that is going to work for the long term, because there really is no point in winning her back only to lose her again.

;To think that you might never get to feel her face against yours, to kiss her lips, or have her laying next to you in bed is not something that you want to have to deal with. Luckily, you might not have to.

;See, most guys end up losing any chance of getting their girlfriend back because of the way that they act AFTER the breakup. That is the most important time, and that is when you are going to either shine and change her mind, or fail miserably.

;Here are some tips to get your girlfriend back so that you do NOT have to deal with this:

;1. You need to be able to calm yourself down and not think about the worst case scenario.

;If you let your mind go searching for all of the possible outcomes that you do not want to happen, guess what it will do to you? It will drive you CRAZY. You need to be calm and collected and you cannot allow yourself to assume that she is out with another guy or anything like that. If you show her jealousy, that is not going to make her think about getting back together. However if she sees that you seem to be dealing with everything calmly, that will raise you up a notch in her eyes.

;2. You need to be able to flirt with her in a way that just seems NATURAL.

;The really big key to getting back your girlfriend is to make her feel attracted to you again. And to do this, you need to flirt with her, but it has to seem natural. When a woman sees that she just has a natural chemistry with a guy, that is a big deal to her. She won't be able to just walk away from that.

;3. You need to know how to use attraction techniques that are proven to entice a woman.

;Part of what you are doing when you go after an ex girlfriend, is you are starting from scratch. Yes you have a history together and it can be a really recent history, but the fact is, you are starting over in a way. So, you need to treat it like that and work on building up her attraction little by little. Do this right and you WILL have her back in your life.