The feelings you still carry in your heart about your ex even with the pain and hardship of a breakup is likely one of love and caring. It’s very likely that your ex is feeling the same way. When two people have shared so much in life as a couple does, it’s nearly impossible for them to part without some semblance of care for one another. That’s why it hurt so badly when things ended. It’s also likely that your ex just needed some time to clear his head about a few things and really does still cares about you. You just need to prep yourself for when you’re both ready to get back together.

First Tip: Sprucing up

The chances of running into your ex on the street or at the store are good. Getting back your ex is in your favor so long as you keep yourself looking alluring. You don’t have to go so far as to becoming desperate in trying to show off what you know your ex loves seeing on your body but you can highlight the aspects and features you know will capture his attention and that he’ll enjoy.

Second Tip: Show Him You Are Happy

Sadly, the number one reason men will leave a girl they care about is because he felt he was no longer able to keep her happy. If this is the case for your recent breakup, you need to work hard to make your ex see that he was the one that made you happy. He likely tried everything to make you happy and you may have snapped at him after a hard day at work. Guys easily take those kinds of actions the wrong way. It’s likely he thought you were upset at his attempts to relax or take care of you. Let him know you are happy with him and that you appreciate everything he does for you.

Third Tip: Take Time Off

You may want to stay as close to your ex for whatever reason you’ve used to justify standing outside his house going through his garbage. However, there is no reason to justify staying so close to your ex. When you remain in your ex’s life, neither of you will have room to grow and or change. Things will go back to being the same and after some time, you’ll either realize your ex is taking advantage of your desperation or he’s going to break your heart all over again by reminding you that you’re not together anymore. When he broke up with you, he broke up with having you a part of his life, too.

No matter what you feel like, so long as you can follow these three tips… you’ll soon be back in his arms and happier because you were both able to grow from this experience.