If you think being steady and uniform in your behavior, will keep your woman happy, think again. Your lover wants to be surprised now and again and have a little romance in their life. Now that is definitely a premature signal, during your dating days, because you are truly giving the wrong signal at the wrong time. Knowing how to keep your mate guessing is a crucial skill in making sure that the spice is still in your relationship. Your mate wants to feel pursued and desirable, so have fun with it. Because normal is boring, in dating terms. Try a few of these techniques as you pursue them:

Be a wizard with numbers: narrate her cell number beginning backwards! Make sure they know you know. But wait just a minute. Have fun and then forget what they have said to see if they catch the joke.

Being able to be flexible changes over time and so we must remember how to be more flexible in what and how we do things. The best thing we could ever do for ourselves is determine that we will always look for ways to break out of our molds and be creative with our spouse. We should find them alluring and attractive and fun to be around. If we wane in those emotions, we can gain them back, we just need to work at it.

Women love to be surprised. Show up unexpectedly and show them that you are thinking of them. Give a bear hug, kiss her, when she is least prepared, and then move on to do something else completely different.

Understand that the love quotes that are everywhere are to inspire us and not to be a thing of judgment. Sure, every one of us wants a love like that which is in the quotes about love. But that love is one which is acquired and not just handed to us.

Sometimes do things that she least expects you to do. Why not be inventive by being kids for a night and just having some good old fashioned fun. Don't be shy in being a little outlandish.

Guys, keep in mind that it will be harder for your to change your appearance such as your hair and the like. And some guys do not feel comfortable wearing wigs so you might need new ways to switch things up for your mate. A man can temporarily grow a mustache, a beard, or sideburns, and elicit new attention from his surprised wife. Try finding some clothing that is not normally your style to see what they think of it.

I think we all know the saying that got started a few years ago that says that whet happens in Vegas stays in Vegas. Inside all of us is the need for adventure and excitement that is outside our normal lives. But as we experience something exciting we also want to know that our normal lives will be waiting for us.

Similarly, if you have tried to walk with a cup of hot coffee brimming up to the edges, you try and adjust your pace, to prevent it from splashing over your arm. Interestingly, you walk at different paces to make sure that you reach your goal with no spillage. If you follow the imagery, your cup of romance needs both quick and slow steps in order for it to maintain its maximum amount of enjoyment.