One thing that each of us need is a way to keep our relationship new and exciting. It is so needed in marriages. We are creatures of habit, developing routines that work for us without our having to think about it. It allows us to move through fast-paced lives without having to make every little decision on a daily basis. We don't want to stop and think about which sock to put on first, which way to drive to work, what kind of gas to put in our car, how to stack the dishwasher or fold our clothes.

Go ahead and play with your spouse a little. Remember something that they tell you. Ensure she knows your numbers too. But surprise, surprise! Pretend to have forgotten her contact details, ask for it again.

Try taking some of the time on a date being far off mentally. Look through her at times, without being rude or impolite. Make them pursue you and be willing to be caught.

Our gals love to be spontaneous. Be spontaneous and surprise them at their work. Give a bear hug, kiss her, when she is least prepared, and then move on to do something else completely different.

A very important thing to understand that the love quotes that we all read really should be an inspiration and not a judgment. And, naturally, we all long for the love that we see in the quotes about love. However, that type of love is one that is cultivated and never only stumbled upon.

Shaking up our lives by dumping old habits can make us feel younger and alive. By trying a new hair cut or a new clothes style it breaks you and your spouse out of the normal patterns can make for some interesting conversation.

Guys, keep in mind that it will be harder for your to change your appearance such as your hair and the like. A wig (or several), in a totally different color, with appropriate makeup adjustments, can affect your response to each other. Even though a guy has limited choices on hair styles he can grow facial hair to change up his looks. Try finding some clothing that is not normally your style to see what they think of it.

The secret behind creating magic in any dating relationship is generating a healthy blend of contradictions. The most important thing to consider is that your spouse may or may not be in the mood to be a little crazy so make sure you can see that they want to have some fun. Learning the rhythms of your relationship will enable you to keep your mate guessing and interested. I have found that being spontaneous can be a lot for work so do not think otherwise. When we truly understand how to make are mate happy we will have a great relationship. If you watch closely he appears inconsistent while walking, but look closer, there is a method in his madness.

The best way to describe this tension is to pretend that you are walking to the living room with a completely full cup of tea. You would not walk at your normal, brisk pace but rather keep pace with how the tea is moving in the cup. Interestingly, you walk at different paces to make sure that you reach your goal with no spillage. The fact that you mix things up as your court your spouse is no different than the analogy. You want things a little mixed up now and again to reach your goal of happiness.