You are not sure but you have that premonition; a feeling that you are about to be dumped soon or later. The writing is on the wall but what are the signs that should make you be on a red alert? She is ever busy. It does not matter what time or day of the week but she is always busy wherever you propose for a date. She does not have time to spare for you. In real sense, you are not in her programme and neither are you a priority in her life. You have been relegated from your former position as the best thing that ever happened in her life. In her heart, you are no longer important and that is why she will avoid your company at all costs because she is losing interest in you. To her you are another failed project. You failed to live up to her expectations. She has a string of endless excuses to explain why she cannot be with you.

She stopped calling you ages ago. You are the one who takes the initiative to call otherwise you would not be communicating at all. Sometimes she even fails to pick your calls or worse still she tells someone else to pick the phone and tell whoever is calling she out on an errand. Your voice is the last thing she would like to hear. She will go an extra mile of either switching off her phone or changing her phone number. You nag and you are no longer her darling. You are that man, nameless and faceless. She would not want to be associated with you. She is fast losing interest in you. She would rather do better things than waste her time on phone talking with you.

It is not amazing but she goes out without you. She hangs out more frequently and she puts a bold statement that your company is no longer important. It means that she can do without you . You do not add value to her life. She is perfectly okay and more comfortable in your absence. She would prefer to go out alone than you being by her side or hang out with her girl friends. She is losing interest in you when she pretends to retire to bed early after you probably propose for a night out with her. If these are the signs then it won't be a surprise if she is seeing another person. It would only serve to show how much she has lost interest in you to the extent of replacing you

She is so reserved and damn aloof when you are with her. She speaks in monosyllables when you try to carry on a conversation. The many silent interludes, some which are unbearably long, continue to build tension. You all over sudden become self conscious. It is like you are sitting around a stranger. She is no longer the person you once knew. The girl who was bubbly, jovial, outgoing and fun to be with. She is losing interest in you and continues to grow colder and colder as the days go by. Read the signs and move on before you are hurt further.