Believe it of not, there are 'magic' words you can use to get your ex to return your phone calls. These words seem to cast a spell that makes your ex feel compelled to return your phone call.I am going to let you in on this little secret because  this is one of the biggest questions I get from the many people just like you who are trying to get their relationship back.So I am going to answer that one question... "How do I get my ex to return my phone call?"Please bear in mind that If you use this technique alone, without an overall plan or strategy,you could very possibly damage your relationship further than if they never returned your call.In the latest bestseller, Magic Of Making Up, there is a complete strategyBefore we talk about the actual magical words, we will first of all go over what, more often than not, does not work, and can put you into an even worse position.These usually fall into 2 categories, and either one of these can backfire.Firstly, the begging messages.  This is where you plead with them to call, tell them how many times you have called them, and end the message with saying you just Have to talk to them.Secondly, the emergency message.  Letting them know that there is some kind of emergency and they need to call you right away.I think it is pretty obvious what is wrong with both of these types of message.There are two very powerful forces in the human brain, curiosity and self interest, and here is where the magic comes in. When you combine both of these, you have the recipe for success in most instances.So lets have a look at a way of using curiosity and self interest that will work every time.Try saying, in a friendly way, something like:"Hi Mike,  Its Linda here. I wanted to let you know how much I appreciate what you did for me. Call me because I really want to thank you in person."See how this uses both curiosity and self interest? It would be hard for Mike to resist calling.  He would want to know exactly what it was that Linda appreciated, and it also makes him feel good because it is a positive message.Now, before you make the call, you obviously have to figure out what they did do that you appreciate. It does not have to be anything big, but does have to be something believable.This forms an underlying strategy, something that is extremely important and is laid out simply and clearly in the Magic of Making Up System.But remember, if you apply this technique without an underlying plan, you could do more damage than good. What you do before, during and after getting them to return your call is far more important than getting them to return your call.