Some People do not even have an idea of how to start romancing their partner but this is not because they do not know, they just do not know how to start. Romance is a very important thing in all relationships, people who are not romantic are more likely to be left than those who are. Before you have sex, you should be able to set the mood, start early in the day romancing your patrner and see how much you will gain by the time you get to bed. First and foremost you and your partner should set the mood for having sex by being romantic. Fighting all the time will not help set a mood for good love making. It should start as early as you wake up and last all through the day. You should wake up with a smile, tell your partner you love them and perhaps offer to run their shower. During the day when everyone is working in their offices, you can send flowers or a single stem flower to tell your partner that you love them and you can not wait to see them.

You can romance your partner with music. Play partner a romantic music, the one that they like listening to and that has always got them in a good mood. You can then dance with your mate. While dancing, make sure you whisper a lot of sweet things in your partners ears. Watch the reaction and judging from the reaction you can choose to continue dancing or change your romancing approach. You can also sit with your partner and play gently with the various sensitive parts of their bodies. At the end of it, you will be making your partner feel both loved and wanted. You can nibble at their arm or suck their fingers gently and lovingly. You can also play with their hair or the neck area.

You can take your mate out to a very romantic restaurant or you can set a romantic atmosphere at home so as to romance him or her. You can light all the candles in the house and set your house a lit with a romantic glow. Take care not to burn the house down. You can also have a theme for the day. For example if your partner always wanted to go to some country like Hawaii and they haven't, you can set the house to look like a Hawaii beach. You can order a traditional Hawaai food and surprise them when they come.

Romance your partner by buying a gift. You dont have to buy a gift for an occasion. Come up with something to celebrate, you can celebrate love or togetherness. You can also get your parner something beautiful that you though would look great on them. It is easy to be romantic and loving, all you need to do is to pen your mind and heart and think about the things you can do with and for your mate while you have the chance and time.