Sometimes love is blind and we can't see even what is in front of our own eyes. Many lovers interpret relationship abuse as acts of love. A woman who is dangerously hit by a husband out of jealousy brushes it off as an act of love. Don't they quote the bible to support their acts of impunity? Love is jealousy so they say. To know abuse for what it is, take the following abusive relationship quiz. The quiz will help you to address any relationship problems and fix all the misinterpreted acts. The first question you should ask yourself is whether you are afraid of your partner. If the answer is no there are better chances that it is just a misunderstanding. If the answer is yes, i am afraid you might be in an abusive romantic relationship.

Do you fear tantrums? I hate them and you should beware of them. Number two in my abusive relationship quiz list is whether you have to literary walk on eggshells to avoid annoying your partner. A relationship should create a conducive environment where lovers can share their inner feelings without fearing to be condemned or hurt. In a tense environment love and passion can never blossom. If your answer was yes, you are in an abusive relationship and you should consider leaving. Verbal abuse can be more traumatizing than the physical abuse. It affects the way we view ourselves and put us down completely. If your partner throws insults, ignores you, acts in a demeaning manner or utter belittling comments you are being mistreated in an unhealthy relationship.

Love can be looked at in many different perspectives. "Nobody can tell me what to do except my husband." Aren't we all familiar with such utterances? There is a difference between a loving and caring partner and a control-flicked out partner. The former is usually secure and has no trust issues. On the other hand, the latter is a person who suffers from insecurity and he/she is very selfish. To differentiate the two, a question to ask yourself is: Does your partner tell you who to choose as your friends, how to dress, where to go and control some elements in your life? If this is the case, this is not a loving relationship it is an abusive relationship. Abusive relationship quiz features a question on whether your partner gets jealous unnecessarily.

A healthy romantic relationship speaks for itself. The couple might try to hide the truth but it is not about the public opinion. It is all about the abused person. As a victim, stop putting happy faces and evaluate the situation. Is your man physically violent? Look for a solution before the situation aggravates. While answering the abusive relationship quiz you will find in the list questions such as: Does your other half have extreme mood swings? Does he/she threaten you to an extent you control yourself not to provoke him? Does he/she make important financial decisions without bothering to consult you? If you answer yes to most of these questions, you are definitely in a relationship that does you more harm than good. Address the issue before it is too late.