If you are reading this, you want to get your wife back. I respect you immensely for just taking the effort to get here.

If your wife has just told you that she want a divorce, it is one of the most painful things any man has to go through. Let me show you the methods that will help you, as it has helped hundreds of my clients, to get your wife back now.

• 1. Don't drink and dial. You have an unbearable pain and need to get rid of it. Unfortunately, most people turn to something externally to heal the pain. This has short-term effects that can cause irreparable long-term damage. If you plan on getting wasted tonight (or if you're sitting in the bar right now reading this), DON'T DO IT. This is the single most damaging thing you can do right now, to call your ex wife. I understand, and so should you, that being very emotional like you are right now is not allowing you to be your charming self. There is something else you should be doing right now.
• 2. Why you feel like going crazy from heartache. As men we naturally want to be in control of ourselves, our situations and everybody around us. All of this has just been jerk away from you and it hurts a lot. It's the sudden loss of your wife that brings on a stream of uncertainties and this gives you the feeling that you need to do something right now. That's why you feel the urge to get your wife back right now. Drunk dialing is one of these thing, but like I said please know that doing something like that will cause a lot more harm than do any good. You have to understand that you need to take a brief break during which you will get your head clear and formulate the game plan to win back the love of your life.
• 3. The vacuum that made it all go wrong. Over time the little things heap up to become bigger things. These things, if left unresolved, will start to become a huge space between you and your partner. You cannot really describe it, you don't know why it's there, but you feel that there is something very wrong. It's like the love is being sucked right out of the room. This feeling exists because of a lot of little things like fights that was never resolved. This feeling might have even led your partner to cheat on you. There is a very simple way to make this vacuum fill up with more love than ever before. It deals with the core of what a woman truly wants. Appreciation. If you want to get your wife back, filling up this void is one of the best and first things you should do - but beware - there is a very specific way you should do this, otherwise things can end up worse than ever.