Ending a relationship is hard to do

Do you just keep moving "splitting up with the other half" till tomorrow?

Your right to think that ending a relationship isn't at the top of anybodies agenda, but when a relationship goes cold facts are someone has to make the first move . Truth is that a lot of relationships last long past the "use by" date just because breaking up is so hard to do.

Sometimes a breakup can be a bad one, you can even find your stuff out front without any notice!

Sometimes the relationship just fizzles out until someone says It's over

Here are a few ideas around ending a relationship so that no-one gets hurt.

You need to be certain of why you want to end the bond. be careful as it may not be the first thing that springs to mind. But once you go get it clear. the next step in ending a relationship is to be honest, That means that in the "talk" to your partner you are honest with yourself and them too.

Pick a good time for the break up, Try to make sure its face to face, not by phone or text. However if you are a big distance apart its better to do it sooner rather wait for a time when your both together.

Get into a mood of compassion when ending a relationship, especially if you want to stay friends after wards. The conclusion of the romantic ties should be remembered with love and compassion, or the memories will be tainted.

Don't make your partner feel defensive. Talk about all the great memories and things that you have come to love. Make sure your around during the break-up as your partner may need a little emotional support. you should respond to there need still at this time.

Don't take what is said to personally when ending a relationship. your partner may say things in haste during this time. take such comments with a pinch of salt.

Your partner may not be able to gain closure in one meet. Or may need space either way their needs again must be met in this transition stage.

Don't be pulled into feeling guilty. Your ending a relationship because its best for you both. Stay positive and you'll get through. Remember your going to begin a new phase and it doesn't include you ex.

should you ever consider a getting back together? Does ending a relationship always mean"the end of the line?"

That is in your hands only. Almost all relationships can be saved if certain conditions are met. With effort and time you can both come through this as an even stronger couple.

But If your convinced finishing is best . well its bet to walk away and learn from it.