You're going through probably one of the worst moments of your life. It is not an easy situation, but things can be done to win her back. I feel your pain and although reality is not always kind, you still have control over what your future looks like. Here are several things you can do right now if you are asking how to get my wife back.

Think about things you like other than your ex wife. You have to get out of a mode of depression and be positive. People are attracted to positive people and your wife is no different. Your wife is much more likely to be re-attracted to an ambitious and positive guy than a sullen and broken man.

• Be careful where you get your advice. Don't fall into the trap of those out there saying all you need to do is get your wife flowers and call her three times a day begging to get her back. This will not work in a million years and it has never worked. The key to getting your ex wife back is creating curiosity in her mind.

• Be mysterious. That doesn't mean you should go out and turn into phantom of the opera, but rather avoid contact with your ex wife so she starts to get curious as to what you are up to. If you can embark on new ventures, build a healthy lifestyle, and create a life of abundance, your ex wife is very likely to be vying for your attention in no time.

• Make your opening move. The first trick in getting your ex wife back is to write her a hand written letter letting her know that you agree with the breakup and think that it is the best thing for both of you. This may sound counter-intuitive, but it will in fact turn the tables on them and have them start thinking about whether they can handle losing you forever.

From that point on the path to getting your ex wife back is very easy if you follow the right psychological tactics that will make her have a sudden urge to be back with you and make things right forever. Women have certain emotional hot buttons that they don't want you to know about and that you can take advantage of. If you take action now you can go from asking how to get my wife back, to actually having her in your arms.

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