You never thought you would feel this much pain, but you can't help but think about winning your man back. Fortunately, there are things you can do right now to have your man come crawling back you.

The first thing you should focus on is clearing your thoughts. This is a game and if you want to play to win you are going to have to be very focused. Get back out there are be the independent woman that you are. Learn something new by taking a salsa class, learn kick boxing, or even get a makeover. These are things to help you avoid contacting your man as well as make him a little jealous and curious as to what you have been up to.

Only when you are displaying full confidence should you proceed to try and make any sort of contact with your man. Now that you have a clear head, you want to write a very short note or email to your man saying hi and asking how things are going. Encourage him to set up a meeting with you so you guys can talk casually. Make no mention of the break up and don't try to blame anyone. Leave the ball in his court and if he doesn't set up a time to meet, make one.

This part is crucial if you are serious about winning your man back. When you meet up with your man let him know that you think it's a good idea that you guys took a break. This will turn the tables on him and he will be very enticed to know what you have been up to. You don't have to tell him. End the meeting very quickly and let him know that you would be okay with meeting up again. If he is already talking about getting back together, then you can take the opportunity to talk about working things out in the relationship. Otherwise, use this initial contact as your foundation to winning him back. There are several other tricks you can use in winning your man back in as little as two days and it is well worth investing in yourself as well as the appropriate tricks and tactics to win your man back.

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