It seems like the two of you were happy as ever like it was yesterday. You remember him having his arms around you. All of a sudden now, though, your world is shattered and you are trying to figure out how to win back his love.

This is by no means an uncommon situation. Break ups happen all the time and for a million different reasons. Women like you lose their men all the time and it is a painful process. However, lots of women just like you are able to win back his love too. The women that have been able to do this knew that it would take resoluteness, but they also knew it would be easy if they had an action plan. And since emotions are firing up everywhere during a break up, an action plan is one of the most valuable things a girl that his trying to win back his love can have.

One of the most important attributes of your action plan should be timing. Everything comes down to timing in getting your man back, just like in a war. This is because you are trying to play on emotions and as human beings time always plays an important role. The first action you should take is avoiding any sort of contact with him. Take this time to get out there and be social as well as to do things for your own good such as taking a salsa class or getting a makeover. This time will also have your ex wondering what you are up to and will entice him to make contact with you.

He doesn't necessarily have to make contact with you, though. After you feel that you are confident enough in your own world, you can make the initial contact by either writing him a note, sending a text message, or an email just to say hi and see how things are going. You should also suggest that you are open to meeting up sometime and having a casual date at the coffee shop. Encourage him to plan the details, as the more time he invests in meeting up with you, the more important he believes you are. Leave the ball in his court for now and see how he reacts. You can make this process even faster if you have a couple more tricks up your sleeve and for this reason it is important to invest in a proper plan that will help you win back his love and get your life back together.

Did you find these tips on how to win back his love helpful?