You never thought it would come to this. You miss your lost love and you want to know how to win back a lost love.

The first thing you should ask yourself, however, is that do you truly want this person back in your life? You may love them, but did they love you back? A simple way to do this is to create a pro and con list about what you liked about them and what you didn't. This will help you determine whether you are longing for your lost love because they are truly good for you and it is a relationship that is meant to be or if you are only longing for them because they made you feel comfortable and you don't like to be single.

When you have determined this, it is important to realize that you are not going to win back lost love by daydreaming about them and calling them all day. I know that you are smarter than this and I know that you have a lot more to offer to the world. You have to get back out there in the world on your own before you can even think about getting your love back. If it is any motivation for you, getting back out there and being happy for yourself might trigger a little bit of jealousy in your lost love and help them come back to you. It is important, however, that you are doing these things like taking an aerobics class or getting a makeover, mostly for you and not for them.

One of the key ingredients in winning back a lost love is to have an action plan. This is a game of wits and playing on the person's emotions frankly, and you are going to have to be smart if you want to win back lost love. This means being logical and not emotional. It isn't as hard as it sounds though when you have the right plan. There are certain psychological buttons that you want to push in your lost love's brain that will remind him of what he is missing and will almost magically have him thinking about you more than his thinking about anyone else. It takes precise action and a well put together plan to do this, but it is very possible to win back lost love with the right plan consisting of what actions to take and when to take them.

Did you find these tips on how to win back lost love helpful?