If a donkey could talk, then it would tell you a thing or two on ‘How to talk to your ex’. I am not asking you to bray out loud, but just that communication is the key to solving any issue. Yeah, I know that a break up comes with its own version of heart burn and that at the moment you cannot even bear to think about your ex. But you will need to get past the issue of ‘she did this, I am in the right or it is all her fault’ and think more about moving on with your respective lives. Carrying a chip on the shoulder never did anything for anyone and guess what? It is not going to do much for you either.

There is no easy method on ‘How to talk to your ex’, considering the fact that you would be talking to her for the first time since break up. But this is something that you would have to do if you are to be able to get on with your life and move on. The only way to move on is to deal with the issue head on and it involves you talking to your ex. You will be hurting, be angry and even a bit vindictive towards your ex. But you need to move on, past the negative feelings that you may have for your ex. By doing so, you would be taking the first baby steps to moving on with your life.

There are many couples that remain friends even after the break up, well; the percentage of such couples is quite small. I am sure that you do not want to end up as ‘Ross geller’ did after his break up from ‘Rachel’, but as these two television characters do show, even they were able to move past the bitterness. The only way to do it is by lifting up the phone and making that first call, take that first baby step.

You may even shirk a bit at the sound of her voice but you will find that it gets easier to talk with one another after the first few ‘uncomfortable’ seconds. No one said that talking to your ex, especially for the first time since break up is going to be easy. In reality, it is going to be hard, but once you get through that first call, you will find that talking to your ex is not as difficult as you had imagined it to be. So take the first step and dial the number.