Did you just break up with your ex over the phone and now you wish you hadn't? They are now so mad at you, the mere thought of you causes a migraine. You want to make up but they won't budge. Won't even answer their cell phone.

What do you do?

Well, you could plead insanity. Or you could go out and spend money on expensive gifts in hopes that does the trick. Oh! you say that stuff is old hat and won't work this time?

So you're asking the question how can I get back into the good graces of my ex and get out of the doghouse where at least my phone calls will be returned?

Here's something you could do and other great ideas await you at my website.

So first, let's see if you can at least get the lines of communication open, by getting them to return your calls.

First off let's not screw this up by coming off desperate. Calling and leaving a zillion messages on their voice mail, wreaks of a very weak and needy person. Don't beg them to call you back. You know what I'm talking about, the whiny please call me this is an emergency stuff. It puts you at a distinct disadvantage.

Do something like this, in a friendly manner call and leave a message thanking them for something...anything you can think of, but make it believable.

Use a little common sense before you call and come up with any little thing that you can think of that can back up your story of why you're so calm and thanking them.

Your mindset should be to thank them because you really appreciate their thoughtfulness.

It'll drive them nuts wondering what the heck they did that warrants you leaving a message in such a calm and friendly tone. Especially since you guys probably just had a big fight the day before.

Curiosity is a wonderful thing, so make it work in your favor.

Have a sound strategy as to what to do when they call you back. If you apply this curiosity technique without a Plan B, you could cause more harm than good if you don't handle it in the right way.

Be sure to check out my website for ideas on putting together a sound strategy for the curiosity technique to work for you.