Does it seem like you and your ex always fight even about the mundane things that doesn’t typically start a fight? Do you go to sleep mad at each other and don’t say anything to one another in the morning? If you are tired of living on pins and needles but still love your significant other, then it’s time to seek some advice on how to do a relationship rescue. Why it may seem impossible to fix your relationship, as long as there is still love and you both want to improve the relationship, any relationship can be salvaged.

How do you start with a relationship rescue? You need to follow these five steps outlined here:

First, don’t run away from the problem. All too often couples fight and walk away before resolving the issue. This is the worst thing they can do for each other. Yes, if it seems like it will get physical, both of you take a time out. However, if hurtful words are about all that will happen, take a deep breath and stop arguing with each other and certainly do not walk away. After both of you have calmed down, talk rationally about the issue.

Second, do not bad mouth the other person to people outside the relationship. This only adds fuel to the fire and your friends/family may always want to put their two cents in, making the situation even worse. While you may need someone to talk to about a particular issue regarding your partner, talk constructively about it and get advice. Sometimes, one person outside the relationship can help you see your significant other’s concern.

Third, if you both feel that the relationship rescue needs a bit more work, try talking with a professional about it. In fact, you can do one on one therapy or group couples’ therapy. If you choose to go with the latter, you will learn from other couples about the problems that plague your relationship. Sometimes you may wonder why you even fought at all when you hear other couples’ situations. Don’t be afraid to seek help from outside sources especially if you feel the relationship is worth salvaging. Find a relationship rescue source that puts you both at ease.

Fourth, remember to compromise from time to time. It doesn’t hurt to give in especially if it’s something not important enough to argue over. When it comes to money, calmly talk about what your partner wishes to do and make a compromise. You don’t have to give in on a habitual basis but at least consider every time the feelings of your partner.

Fifth, do something out of the blue for your significant other especially when they least expect it. When a relationship becomes stale and routine, do something that’s out of ordinary to keep the relationship fresh. Believe it or not, this can help heal matters in your relationship. It shows the other person you thought about them.

Now that you know the five steps for the relationship rescue, it’s time to put your plan into action. If you believe your relationship is worth saving, for whatever reason, then save it and work to continue saving it every day.