When you meet someone who can make a good friend, you think of how you can share your experiences in life with the person and have a happy friendship. However, to have a happy friendship you have to work hard and invest greatly in your relationship. We do not just wake up to happy friends; we have to really sweat for it. Sweating may not be that dramatic but, you have to consider a few things that will guide you on how to really achieve your goal; to have good and happy friends. First, it all begins on how you choose people to be your friends. Many times, we do not even choose our friends but find ourselves relating to them because of circumstances. However, if you really want to have a happy union, it is time you had a say in how to choose your friends. You need to work on yourself before you go choosing perfect people. Ask yourself whether you are ready to undertake a friendship. Are you willing to spare time to spend with them? You will have to ask yourself these and many other questions before you reach that point of true friends.

One thing we can agree on is that we all need not just friendship but happy friendships. Without friends, we end up lonely and life does not bring us all the joy we were hoping for. Life is designed for people to share joy and sadness together and this is just the way it works. Many times, we are so busy doing stuff that we forget our social life. When you burry yourself in business other than one that involves sharing with people, you might look back and regret the far you have come. Therefore, a change of attitude goes a long way as you embark on finding friends. A happy friendship will allow you to share your ambitions and aspirations without fear. This is because you trust your friends to really wish you well and more so encourage you to go for your dreams. Many times, you will feel like such friends who are patient and encouraging no longer exist. However, if you look in the right places, you will meet people who have a heart of gold. You have to keep in mind that, if you wish to meet good friends and be happy, you have to match and be good.

Happy friendships come with time and effort. You must be close so that you can share all about your lives. Spend time having friendship fun and look for new territories to conquer together. Friendships are definitely not perfect and you do not need to be perfect to be happy. Our flaws help us to see things from different perspectives so that we can improve ourselves. To be happy with friends, you need to admit when you are at fault and your friends will respect you and do the same. This way, there is no doubt that yours will be friendships that are genuinely happy.