I can show you how to get your ex girlfriend back. A breakup doesn't always mean that the relationship is over. Do you want to know if you still have a future with your ex girlfriend? Do you want to know if you can get back together with her? I can show you how. There are simple steps you can follow to get her back now.

The First Crucial Step

Under no circumstances can you appear needy, sad and desperate to your ex girlfriend. This could kill the deal right from the start. Neediness is seen as a burden and will push your girlfriend even further away from you than she is now. If you are in unbelievable pain and are suffering, then you need to find a friend or family member to share your feelings with. You must appear as strong, confident and together in front of your ex. I discuss this further below.

Step Two - Communication Can Save You

While neediness and desperation can drive her away even more, non-threatening communication on a regular basis can slowly bring her back. Let me share a true story that happened with me.

I dated a girl for eight months. One of the most annoying things about that relationship was her ex boyfriend. He would call her at least once a week. He would have a simple conversation and no more. He would ask her how she was doing and even ask how I was doing. Eventually, this girl and I broke up. It wasn't meant to be. And who was right there ready to scoop her up. That's right, her persistent ex boyfriend who had kept the lines open for months just waiting for is chance.

A key part of this guy's strategy was that he never came across as desperate. He just waited patiently for the right moment. What a very clever and smart guy.

I'm not saying that you are going to have to wait months. I'm just illustrating a point. The winners in the game of love are not needy, impatient and desperate. Rather, they are calm, cool, collected and patient. There's an article on my site that shows you how to regain the peace in your life while you are patiently executing your plan to get your ex girlfriend back.