Are you currently dating someone who gets your heart racing? And are you at that time in your relationship where you're beginning to suspect it may possibly get serious? You might have even thought about marriage. If your answer to these questions was 'yes', it would be adviseable for you to ask each other some questions that could help you to get to know each other better.

To get you started on this activity, following are the top 20 questions for couples:

1. If you could change any one thing about yourself, what would that be?

2. If you had the ability to change any one thing about me, what would you change?

3. What, more than anything else, makes you feel loved?

4. What is your definition of success?

5. What would you change first if you were the king (or queen) of the world?

6. If you could journey back in time, what famous historical event would you like to observe?

7. What historical event would you want to change if you could go back in time?

8. What is the one thing that people do that most annoys you?

9. Where in the world would you most want to live?

10. Complete this sentence: Before I die, the thing I most want to accomplish is ______.

11. What have you learned from your past relationships?

12. Do you seek certain qualities in a person? What are those?

13. What do you consider your best character traits?

14. What's the most foolhardy thing you've ever done?

15. What's your most memorable moment?

16. What would you do with the money if you won the lottery?

17. What three items would you take with you to a deserted island?

18. What time in history would you have liked to be born in and why?

19. What are you most passionate about?

20. What's one place you haven't been to yet that you really would like to visit?

If my top 20 questions for couples inspire you to engage in meaningful dialogue with your loved one, then this article has accomplished its mission. But this is just a starting point. Try to come up with some fun questions for couples, and especially 'get to know' questions. I suggest open-ended questions rather than "yes' or 'no' questions, because they stimulate more in-depth discussion. Putting forth some effort to better understand each other now will have long term rewards for both of you.

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