When talking about love and relationship, no one makes an exemption. Even the most hard headed-emotional rock star and the most timid-shy and vulnerable women have definitely went through a very painful heartache.

I love you good bye, I will remain as your friend, I will remain faithful to you, you will always be a part of me, I will never forget our memories and many more are actually a bitter sweet good bye. People who seem to use these words when ending a relationship are more often, if not all in the stage of denial. They tend to end the relationship because of a certain event that may have hurt their alter ego even if deep inside, they still long to continue fighting for the ambitioned endless romance.

It is not wrong to make a move in order to reunite a broken relationship. If you think you cannot yet afford to let go of the relationship then go ahead! Beat those No-No’s and transform yourself to the greatest warrior you could imagine. Start fighting for what you ought is right. It will be such a great act of love, a move of bravery, and a mark of a certified romanticism.

But do you really think this is always the right thing to do when you are still in love with your ex boyfriend/girlfriend? Do you really think that you need to do anything in your power to get your ex back and be again commit yourself to a relationship that has shattered?

Maybe it just righteous to fight for as long as you think that there is still love.

However, that does not necessarily apply at all times. Sometimes, we need to realize that maybe in some point, love just is not enough. That sometimes you need to let go of what you think the best for both of you in order to achieve the ultimate future.

So when should we fight to get your ex back and when should we not?

•When you are definite that your ex-partner feels the same as you do and still loves and wants you back, then you should do everything within your reach to rekindle the spirit of romance between the two of you.

•If you are at fault, that you accept and regret what you did and that you can swear that you will not do that again. Else, the parting ways will just be repeated and might get even worst in the future.

•When your ex boyfriend/girlfriend legally belongs to somebody else, the you should let go. "Legally" means that, when your ex boyfriend/girlfriend is already committed to someone else either spiritually or constitutionally. Sometimes mutual feelings towards each other are not always the basis of keeping each other’s arms. Not unless you wanted to be the "other woman/man" instead of the "only one". It is still actually your choice. Believe in "karma", it is true. I bet you would not want love a life knowing that there is still someone trying to take away your beloved from you.