Well, let’s face it it is hard to let a relationship go especially if you have been together for a year or more. Naturally when break up happens, we feel like part of ourselves was taken away from us. And in the effort to get the missing part back, we also end up wanting the person back. Before you knew it you take unnecessary steps that sometimes compromises your dignity and self-respect just to get your ex back. On the other hand, to get your ex back is not always the solution to make you whole again. Sometimes, it is also necessary to let go and move on. Before you decide to get your back, it is important to understand your ex behavior and to read between the lines what he is trying to tell you.

Situation #1 - In your attempt to get your ex, you call him to apologize and before you can say anything he hangs up on you.

Most break-ups end up really bad and this example can tell you that he does not want to talk to you or still hates you. He is also trying to say that he does not want any reconciliation as of the moment. So leave him in peace. Do not call him if he does not want to be called.

Situation #2 – He rolls his eyes whenever he sees you.

This is a clear sign that your ex does not want the sight of you and dreads just looking at you. He does not want your presence and would like to stay away from you as much as possible. With this kind of action that he is showing you, do you still seriously consider to get your ex back? Perhaps it is time to think twice.

Situation #3 – He runs away whenever he sees you

Simple enough to understand, he does not want to see you and this should also be a clue for you that it is not worth it to get your ex back.

Situation #4 – Someone knocks on your door and you hope it was him. When you opened the door you see a police officer handing you out a restraining order.

Now this is fairly simple and very self-explanatory. He does not want you within a certain mile or range. That is how much he dreads your presence. If you see him from a certain distance, do not try to initiate communication by shouting. Let him go and avoid him.

Situation #5 – He badmouths you to your friends, relatives, and even his family members.

This act of talking behind your back is a clear indication of no respect for you. If he does not respect you then there is surely no love left within him for you. With this situation, maybe you should start planning to get on with your life without him.

With all these signs that he is showing, are you still seriously considering to get your ex back? If after he shows all these signs and you feel that you still want to pursue him, then it is time for you reassess yourself and your situation. There is a line that draws a distinction between love and obsession. Besides you can never expect to love any human being if you do not know how to love and respect yourself. So go out and meet people. Have fun. Be with your friends. Get a life and move on and you will see in time that you have chosen the right path.