One thing that may be a common turn off for men is neediness and dependency. Girls are renowned for being more emotional, jealous and unstable when it comes to relationships and dating, men frequently find these marks to be one of the largest problems they are facing and reasons that they'll break up with a girlfriend. One of the most common examples of neediness are telephone calls. A girl will call many times before man answers and will sit by the phone, fretting as to why he may not of called and what he is thinking regarding her telephone calls. Truly, a man is thinking very little about the matter. Men will immediately presume that this girl is controlling and insecure with herself, not a great recipe for romance.

The fact that many women act like this in relationships is because of the fact that they have been left before and are scared of an identical situation happening which will cause them pain. The issue happens when the women start to act more needy, push the new man away and then reinforce her fear of being left. Once a girl has got onto this dangerous cycle, it's not easy to recover and build up their self esteem and confidence once more. While it may appear straightforward, many women who behave in a pathetic and insecure fashion are well aware of it, though still cannot appear to discover a way to stop these unwanted and damaging habits. The reaction a girl in this type of mind set can have to an unanswered phone call can be akin to a panic attack which causes a great deal of agitation and stress. The other side of the neediness coin is naturally, playing hard to get. Some girls believe that seeming to be unavailable will make them more fascinating to men.

The belief in 'playing tough to get' stems from the idea that men like the chase and will only remain interested as long as there's a target which they need to get and a challenge which has not been met. Although this has demonstrated to work during the past, it's not an attractive quality to a man with healthy self confidence. Neither of these two character features are enticing to men or girls in any kind of relationship and it's vital to grasp that they only way of securing a long-lasting and trusting relationship is to find a half way mark and keep a healthy respect and communication with any partner. Trust will build up thru time and after you start to know a husband or fiance you'll find that there isn't any need for pretence or mistrust of any sort. Isn't better then to start off as you mean to go on? By respecting a relationship from the first date without any ploys, tricks and plans is a far better way to discover a satisfied, content and loving relationship with a great guy.