Here’s a blunt fact, getting your ex back means showing him that you are absolutely better than the rest of the girls out there. This means that you would have to experience some tight competition among other girls who are eyeing out your ex boyfriend.

Quite naturally after a break up your ex boyfriend will definitely meet a lot of people and potential future girlfriends. And to make the competition even tougher, old flames starts to come out in the open who might just have been lurking out there waiting for a wonderful opportunity to ignite the flames back.

Tough competition isn’t it?

Well, the only way to win it is to show him that you are way much better than the rest of the women out there. If you are successful in this, then you are certain to get your ex back in just a few weeks.

How would you make this happen? Let’s count the ways on how to get your ex back successfully.

First step to get your ex back is to be yourself. Always remember that the very first reason why you catch his attention is because of who you really are. Recall back the days when you first met him and the things he liked about you. Was it because you are naturally bubbly? Or was it because you are such a fun person to be with?

The next step to get your ex back is that once you are able to pinpoint exactly your strong points, do not change this attitude. Instead enhance it. Highlight the things that he liked about you. If he likes you because of your good looks then enhance it by going on a makeover. Be careful not to overdo it though. Once your ex notices this from you, he’ll definitely remember the nice memories you had when you were still together.

Third step to get your ex back is not to be too bluntly vocal in comparing yourself to other people. If you saw your ex having a date with somebody else who you believe is no way better than you, then do not show up and bluntly tell him that you are much prettier and better with his date. This is a major turn-off for guys so and besides you don’t want to look stupid and humiliate yourself, so cool down. Besides, this action will make your ex hate you and later on defend his date. You wouldn’t want that to happen to you, right?

So the only key here is to enhance what have already invested in. Your ex knows a lot about you, in fact almost everything. Like your good qualities, your temper, your negative attitude. So concentrate on improving your negative qualities and highlighting the good ones. It may be difficult at first but always remember that hard work results in positive outcomes.

Do not wallow up in misery instead go out and have fun. Enjoy life and meet new people. Who knows, you might even meet somebody that is way much better than your ex. Improve yourself and you will be surprised that you will actually feel good about it.