A wedding is one of the most special events in one's life. That is why each part of the wedding celebration should be planned and prepared in detail so as not to encounter any difficulties or delays that may ruin the outcome of the joyous event. No one would want to spoil the happiest moment of their best friend, brother, or indeed anyone getting married.

So if you find yourself in the position of best man at a wedding, it is best to do your preparation in good time. Being chosen for best man is to be given the task, amongst other responsibilities, of delivering a key speech at the reception celebrations. This should be spoken from the heart. Talk genuinely as you deliver the speech. Mean what you say. Anecdotes that are sweet and simple are more interesting to listen to and will be appreciated by the newlyweds and guests alike. Be yourself, yet be controlled. A wedding speech does not differ from any other form of speech except that it can trigger the extreme emotion normally to be experienced at a wedding.

Before the wedding day arrives, equip yourself with the necessary materials. As the groom's best man, you are acknowledged to be an important person in the couple's life therefore it is your prerogative to return the honor. Make a point of allotting some personal time to prepare an interesting speech that will add to the blissful mood not only of the couple, but for those guests also present at the ceremony. The following are a few aspects worth bearing in mind while preparing your best man wedding speech:

1. Personalize your speech. Scripted speeches are acceptable provided that you drafted them yourself and are particularly effective if you can add a few 'off script' side quips. It is important that your speech reflects the particular circumstances of the both the couple and their assembled guests. No one appreciates an obviously bought-in, copied script.

2. Insert some humorous comment or opinion to ignite the interest of the gathering. However, do not go to extremes as sometimes the desire to appear funny may outdo everything else. This is not likely to go down well with the bride and groom or anyone else.

3. Think what you are saying and deliver the speech fluently.

4. Acknowledge everybody who has been involved and helped to make the event possible. Recognize the parents of the couple. Acknowledging their names is important since it emphasizes bond and relationship.

5.Lastly compose yourself and relax in to your role. Speaking to the assembled guests at a wedding reception is not that difficult to do. Avoid drinking too much before you speak, but a little refreshment will help you relax and maintain your composure.

Your speech does not need to be written by a professional. Indeed, the best ones always bear the hallmarks of the novice, but genuine speaker. Simply follow the tips above and everything will fall in to place relatively easily. Remember that a wedding is usually celebrated only once in the life of a couple so do your best to enhance the experience. Share your sincere thoughts and wish the couple a healthy, long lasting, and fruitful married life. Your efforts will be much appreciated.