A best man speech, as one of the most anticipated speeches in a wedding ceremony, has to be good and as close to perfect as you can make it. Otherwise it may embarrass the newlywed couple as quality is expected on a festive occasion such as weddings. This should not put too much burden and pressure on the best man though, as enjoying the experience and doing the necessary preparations are the keys to an effective speech. This article highlights some ideas on how to construct a best man speech.

Generally, a best man speech offers admiration and respect to the groom with a note of salutation to his new wife. Congratulate the couple. Prepare the speech well before the wedding ceremony. This allows time to consolidate your thoughts and to come up with a considered presentation.

A good speech is a well prepared speech. The content should be full of respect but with a touch of humor. A speech, mixed with funny statements and comments is energizing and revitalizes the audience. A successful speech is one that encourages a responsive audience.

Construct your speech so that it takes everyone through the story of the newlywed couple. Your oration should reflect your own personality. Do not come up with a speech that is clearly not from you. Talk from the heart and mean what you say. Remember to be mindful with your choice of words. Use words that are appropriate to the audience, which includes people from different ages and different backgrounds. Be sensitive.

A best man speech should be sensible, so before you draft your speech, think if the groom is the type of person who laughs easily. Consider whether he will be completely happy with your jokes. He may like jokes but not be happy for other people to laugh at his expense. It is important to allow for these situations.

A sentimental speech can often be a good choice. Some grooms, and particularly their bride, may prefer to hear a sentimental or traditional speech. Always base your speech on the traits and preferences of the groom whom you will be addressing. This includes carefully balancing stories with an occasional joke, but you must ensure that your basic, sincere message is not overlooked.

Take care to construct your speech so that it is just long enough to convey your thoughts. By doing this you show you have made the effort to prepare and to properly display your best wishes for the couple. Too long a speech may bore the assembled guests and detract from the smooth running of the ceremony. Do not make it too short however, as people will think that you simply could not be bothered to prepare properly. A 5-20 minute best man's speech is fine for most weddings.

Restrict yourself to only light refreshments before you make your speech. Drinking too much before the speech may inhibit your presentation and and would be disrespectful of both the newlywed couple and the assembled guests. Remember, that the wedding is a treasured moment for the couple, as well as family and friends, and no one sets out to spoil the occasion do they?